Gay couple in their 30s looking to be dads

Hi mom(s),

We are a friendly and easy-going gay couple, living and working in Utrecht. We are looking for a chance to become dads. We are open to various different set-ups.

About ourselves: I am in my early 30s and originally from Sai Gon (VietNam). I have lived in Netherlands for almost 10 years. My boyfriend is German and in his mid 30s. We all have been living in Utrecht for about 5 years. We all work IT , and have master degrees in science. In our youths, we lived and studied in Australia.

I (the Vietnamese one) am looking to be a dad. In my spare time I like to go to the gym, reading and spend a lot of time listening to podcasts. I love to traveling and explore new cultures & countries. Since a young age, I always knew I wanted to have kids and become a father, and with the strong supports from my partner, I’m more than ready now to try having kid(s).

I would prefer my kid(s) to have both of their biological dad and mom in their life. Thus the co-parenting model as my personal preference. I’m more than willing to share the workload with mom(s) when the baby arrives since I understand how busy it can be.

I would like to find someone to help make this dream come true, and i hope to be a part of your dream as well. Further down the line, we can discuss about co-parenting arrangements in more details to suit for all of us.

How i see myself as a father figure? I want to spend as much time with the child, show them how wonderful our world is, teach them empathy and love. It doesn’t matter to me if the child is successful/ rich later in their life or not, as long as they live their life happily and contribute to the society in the meaningful way.

So if you are looking for a co-parenting partner to join, forming a unique and modern family bond. I’m more than happy to hear from you.

Cheers,